Where do men go when they are the victims of spousal abuse? There are no "Crisis Centers" , no sympathetic shoulders to "cry" on when you're not a girlyman. The last place you can go is to divorce court where you are victimized by unfair gender bias property settlements. If you back even a timid mouse far enough into a corner it will attack. In the not so gender neutral United States men are punished for being men. If the courts would have been fair, he should have kicked her to the curb.